What I Did to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back
There is probably no worse feeling than that of being dumped, and when that happened to me, too, I had no other thoughts but to get my ex girlfriend back. We didn’t exactly say good-bye to the relationship, after all, not mutually at least, so I devised a plan which proved effective to get my ex girlfriend back.
The first strategy that I used is termed “I agree”. Getting my ex girlfriend back became easier after this. Especially after treating her like a fool and being the immature guy she didn’t want anymore. I called her once and for all and told her that I wish her well. I said I agree with the break up and that it might have been good for both of us to part ways. After saying these things, I hanged up. No point in relishing the past.
I was so cool and civil to her that she must have given what I said a lot of thought. Call it reverse psychology or anything you like, but that certainly helped me in getting my ex GF back.
The next strategy that I used to get my ex GF back is called “the silent mode” or the “shut up”. After calling her, I did not call her again. That made her think then that I am truly gone for good and she spent a lot of sleepless nights wondering if she was wrong in thinking that I am puerile.
Of course, I wasn’t thoroughly enjoying myself when I did these two steps. I felt awful having to lie to her, but when I finally got her back, I resolved not to lie to her again. I am serious in getting back with an ex and I knew I couldn’t play around with that.
The final step in my 3-way plan was to play hard to get. I didn’t rush her but rather took my time, painfully, but surely. I didn’t want us to rush into things and return to the wrong path again; else we would only end up hurting each other.
After all the patience, I got her back and we became a better pair. I made it a point then to prioritize the relationship. I realized that when I got my ex GF back, I had one of the best moments of my life.
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