How to know if you are being scammed by your foreign fiance?
If you are seeking a foreign bride, girlfriend or friend online, then there is a strong possibility that you have come in contact with a scammer or two. These are the girls that make you think they are real, yet in reality they are not. It is the money they are looking for and not love.
If you read my last article, I explained to you about a scammer. I also explained what to look for when talking to someone. I also wrote a little about a scammer’s main goal and objective. If you missed that article, you can still read it on my blog.
What I am going to talk about now will show you how to ensure the lady you are talking too is not a scammer. There are ways to ensure your fiance, girlfriend or friend is not scamming you. There are little things that will take the worry out of meeting a foreign woman.
Knowing that the girl is real is part of the whole dating experience. Unfortunately if you are attempting to meet someone from another country, it is something that cannot be ignored. Take my words seriously and ensure you know who you are talking too.
You are going to come across a lot of internet stories about scammers once you really get into trying to find someone from abroad. So make sure you use some of my suggestions or you will find yourself out of a lot of money, identity stolen, physically hurt or killed.
Now if you are going to be searching for someone online, you must always used a recommended, reputable and secure website for your searches. Do a Google search for Elena’s Models or Kiev Connections. I have worked with both owners of these websites and they are dedicated to ensuring a scam free, legitimate website. Both websites have beautiful women that are looking for men like you to build a long lasting relationship.
If you do not want to pay for the service charge of a dating site, you can go at it alone. Now if you go about it on your own, you are going to want to know this about your fiance, girlfriend or friend. You will need to know her mobile number. Even the poorest person has a mobile phone in Europe and former Russian Republics. The women that I talked to all had mobile numbers and were more than happy to have me call them. If the girl that I was talking to told me she did not have a mobile number, then 100% of the time she turned out to be a scammer.
Now there is not one woman in Russia or former Soviet Republics that does not love gifts. They will expect you to send them gifts for the holidays. Knowing this, it would be normal for you to ask for a mail address. Yet some girls are very shy in the beginning and will not give it out. I would suggest waiting for about two weeks to a month before asking for her mailing address. If after a month she has not given you her address, then there is something wrong.
Now if you have an address for the girl you are talking to, the best way to know if she is real is to have the flower agency take a picture of her receiving the flowers. All flower agencies that do business in foreign countries will offer this service. The extra charge is usually $5.00 to $10.00 USD. I have also seen flower agencies that will take a video of her receiving your flowers for about $20.00 USD. I know of a few guys that were really disappointed in what they saw in these pictures. Some girls did not match their photos at all. It can be a big disappointment, so better to know up front.
If you still have lots of doubt about the girl you are talking too, then there is still one more way to remove all doubts. There are investigators that specialize in foreign fiance validity. Even if she is just a girlfriend or friend, they will find out what you need to know. They will investigate addresses, phone numbers and even take pictures of your girl. You will know 100% whether or not she is real.
If you are going to visit your fiance and have doubts, I recommend hiring a body guard to accompany you around town. I know a number of business men that use these body guards. Fees are negotiable and will give you a feeling of safety. Personally if I had this many doubts about my safety, I would choose to end the relationship. I was very relaxed and confident in whom I was meeting the first time I met my fiance.
Your gut feeling is often times your best defense. It is really hard to doubt the person you are trying to build a relationship with, but you will develop a much stronger and more meaningful relationship by removing all doubt.